Trust

     “Breaking someone’s trust is like crumpling up a perfect piece of paper. You can smooth it over but it’s never going to be the same again.”  This is a perfect explanation to show how important trust. This is an irreversible way. It does not come with a refill. Once it is gone, you probably will not get it back. And if you do, it will never be the same. Trust hang on by a thread. So, while trust is so important, why people do not care so much about their relationship? Why can they lie so easily or how can they act contrary to how they feel? Why are people so fake? I think this is due to the degeneracy of morality. This is problem of our age. Lying has become a life style.  Now we can hear from people, “Why do you believe what I said? Do not believe what I say unless I say otherwise.” It is not normal! What makes us get this situation? Our sense of decency razed. If you justify something, that thing spreads and becomes normal. The situation we came here was so pathetic that lying is now legitimate. But remember that what makes human beings is morality. Without the understanding of morality, man is no different from animal

Sleep for Dream

Sleep is a requirement of human beings. It is also avenue of escape for some people. It is to escape from other people, to escape from gossipers, to escape from nuisances, and then some. When you sleep, dive into deep dream, you have an another world. This is what makes sleep interesting. The only thing you have to do, to dive into an another world, is to close your eyes. When you close your eyes, you are on another world. Actually, sometimes I want to sleep just for I want to dream. Dreams are so meaningful, as for me. I always search my dreams. I wonder what it means. Sometimes even I believe interpretation of dreams. I know it is wrong but I think, if I dream that event, there is a meaning, something will happen. Sometimes, I even live my dreams Once, I had seen people who I do not know, and after about five months, I met these people who I dreamed. This was so interesting that I did not know what can I do when I met these people. I was shocked. Now, I believe the power of dream. Every dream has a meaning. Also, dream makes sleep more beautiful than it is.

Perception of Loneliness

They asked Andrei Tarkovsky "What would you like to tell young people?". He answered “I think I would like to say only that they should learn to be alone and try to spend as much time as possible by themselves. I think one of the faults of young people today is that they try to come together around events that are noisy, almost aggressive at times. This desire to be together in order to not feel alone is an unfortunate symptom, in my opinion. Every person needs to learn from childhood how to spend time with oneself. That doesn’t mean he should be lonely, but that he shouldn’t grow bored with himself because people who grow bored in their own company seem to be in danger, from a self-esteem point of view.” When we looked at it from this aspect, we can see that loneliness can be beneficial and it can gain favor to the creative process, too. How are the alone seem by other people? They are strangers to the place where they go. When they go a cafe or restaurant, it is expected from them that they eat and go as immediate as possible because there is no single-seater table, as people want to pay attention crowded groups, not alone people. Let me tell my story about that event that happens every time. When I go to a cafe for drinking coffee because there is no single-seater table I sit a four-person table, and the questions begin to come immediately: “Excuse me, is this chair available?”, “Can I take this chair?”, “Is there anybody who will come?”, “Are you alone?”. They circle like vultures. Even though this event actually seems like a little event, it so discomfortable that sometimes I want to go away from there. While people find the alone strange, they respond to the noisy crowded normally. Whereas they do not know the feeling of freedom which being alone gives. Finally, Pythagoras said that “A person who cannot be alone by himself cannot coalesce with the others, too”

Less is More

Our consumption patterns directly connects with who we are and how we have a character. What is success? Is it earning a lot of money or having a big house or having an expensive car or gaining reputation? Do you think a life which have an aim and meaning is something like that? Most of people surmise that they can satisfy their desire with money. Whereas everyone who win lottery is unhappy in the long run because who we are do not relate to what we have, it relates to what we do. As Plato said “ What is important is not having many things, what is important needing little things.” We must abstain ourselves from valuing matter. We must value improving our character and our emotions.

Mistake Proofing

What if we creat a law system for covering up our mistakes? It sounds odd but it is real. Some people have already doing that. Its name is Murphy’s Law. It is a strategy for mistake proofing. Maybe you do not know what I am saying. Here are some examples about Murphy’s Law:
• “What can go wrong, will go wrong”  It is express that results in a bad outcomes.
• “You are never find a lost article until you replace it.” It means you can except to find something right after you replace it.
• “If you drop a piece of toast, it always falls buttered side down.”
    Even though I said like it is a bad thing, it is really useful for situations we cannot express even ourselves.
Even better, people keep creating new laws according to new situation.
Some words make intelligible our lifes.

Blocking System

There may be a lot of people who we do not love. Even  sometimes, when we see them, we act like not to see. If it was possible, we would want to they never exist. Good news! It is possible even if it is in dystopia . In this dystopia, you can block anything you do not want to see. Do you afraid of insects?  Then you can block all of insects from your sight. They look as censored. Imagine it! We can raise a generation which is stayed away from bad things. We can be more passionate to people whose we have to put up with their behaviour. I think it is not like dystopia. It is like a utopia. Of  course, it is my opinion. What do you think? Is it a dystopia or utopia?

Someone who is Drained by Ambition

We cannot know what the life comes to us. One day, you can rule on land of Paris. Another day, you can be expelled. This is a story that way. Madame Piere who is princess of Paris falls in love with ruling. "One thing that she feels is the wheels which is rolling under her and cannot prevent herself going somewhere she does not know." This sentence expresses how she is crazy about ruling. But it is taken from her. She is sent to Normandy. She messes up. She lost all of the noblesses who she knows. She collapses psychologically, becomes depressed.  She does not believe, she always thinks that she comes back to Paris thanks to king's letter. But this letter never comes.  She wants to die because she cannot be in a world which is not talked about her .It cannot be an  ordinary death. Her death should take the stage. She wants to draw attention. She organizes a party which contains villigers. She explains the prophecy of death. That's how nobody's gonna remember her. The party comes out. She tells the date of death. Everybody applauds her for this prophecy. When history comes up, she drinks poison and she dies painfully. The tragic, on the day she committed suicide, is a very important show in the capital. So nobody remembers her prophecy.